Countdown To Disney: Week 22 | Disneybound Planning Week|

Hello interwebs and welcome back to the Neighborhood redhead. Today on the continuing countdown to Disney series I am going to be talking about my plans for Disneybounds as well as how I plan what I am going to wear on my vacation.

 

Like I’ve mentioned before, I think Disneybounding really adds to the experience and it keeps you hyped over the long waiting periods. Today, however, I am going to be talking more specifically about my planning process and how I decide what bounds I am doing.

 

Step 1: Dinner Reservations and Park Decisions

On my way to figuring out my disneybounds, I decide where I am eating dinner and even before that which park I am spending the day at. I do this for a few reasons, one to help narrow down restaurant choices for resturaunt week. I also do this because if you decide what parks you are going to be spending the day at, and subsequently where you eat dinner ( at the same park) you don’t have to spend the extra money for park hopper tickets. This also helps me decide what bounds I am going to do. I will usually plan what I’m wearing depending on these two factors. I allow me to narrow down what I want to do and also makes good photo opportunities better.

 

Step 2: Narrow down a list

So once I’ve decided where I am going to be I narrow down what I want to wear. This trip I am doing ALL Disneybounds so I created a list of what to wear in the parks during the day and what to wear for dinner at night. As a reference here is my list.

Day 1 Travel:

 On plane: Sleeping Anna

 Night:  Casual Mickey Mouse 

Day 2: Epcot/ Cape May Cafe

At park:  Epcot Ball

At night: Tink

Day 3:  the Magic Kingdom/Be Our Guest

At park: Merida

At night: Orange Bird

Day 4: Animal Kingdom/Yak and Yeti

 At park: Te Fiti

At night: Dole Whip

Day 5: Epcot/Coral Reef

At park: Ellie

At Night: Becky

Day 6: Magic Kingdom/Flying Fish

At Park: Evie

At Night: Boardwalk Hotel

Day 7: MGM/Sci-Fi Drive-In

At park: Rey

At night: Kylo Ren

 

Step 3: Scour Pinterest

Pinterest is your best friend for coming up with ideas on what to add to your disneybounds. I help narrow all of those amazing ideas you have for what to wear and helps you get ideas from your own closet.

 

Step 4: Assemble

The last part is to assemble the outfits. Once you have scoured Pinterest, your closet, and for me the local H&M, you are ready to assemble all of your outfits. Don’t be afraid to do some DIY projects as well. For my bounds, I am making Minnie ears to match each outfit to make them more recognizable.

 

Alright well, that’s all I have for you today! Make sure to go over and check my Pinterest ( @TheNeighborhoodRedhead) for inspiration for your own Disneybounds!

As always stay magical,

Lia

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Countdown to Disney: Week 25| Resturant Week!|

Hello interwebs! Welcome back it’s your friendly neighborhood redhead here and today we are going to be talking Resturants, Disney Dining Plan, and Vacation Planning.

 

Week 25 of Disney Planning means that you are quickly approaching the 180-day mark. For those of you that are planning your first Disney trip that means planning and reserving the restaurants for your trip. Now, this is specifically talking about Table Service restaurants. Since the Disney Dining Plan has changed for this year I am going to go into that in a little bit of detail.

Now first off, what is a Disney Dining Plan? A Disney Dining Plan is something that you can purchase for your stay if you are planning on staying at any of the on-property hotels. This plan comes with, snacks, quick service, and table service meals per person, per day of your stay. This can make budgeting for meals a lot easier and in the end, you do actually save a bit of money doing it this way. Now, here is some break down of the lingo:

Snack Credit: fairly self-explanatory, the usual popcorn and churros and so much more.

Quick Service Credit: This is the easier, faster option of a table service; a quick service restaurant is one of the ones where you go up and order and get your food on a tray.These will usually be the places you eat at for lunch.

Table Service Credit: This is a sit-down, usually nicer restaurant. Be careful, some of the places that you will book a table service credit will cost TWO credits. Make sure you are being mindful of this when you book reservations. These will usually be the places you eat for dinner, or a nicer lunch or breakfast.

Now that you know the lingo I’m going to go into the new dining plan and how many credits you get depending on what tier of the dining plan you choose. I will also offer my recommendations for the best deals and what my family is planning on doing for our upcoming trip.

The New Dining Plan has three new tiers that you can choose depending on your family and circumstances these tiers include: The Disney Quick Service Dining Plan, The “Original” Disney Dining Plan, and lastly The Disney Delux Dining Plan. As you can imagine, each of these gets incrementally more expensive and you get a bigger number of credits as you move up as well. All of these Plans are listed on the Disney website, so I am going to skip the specific details and give a little overview of what my family is doing for our upcoming trip. Since we are a family of three, staying for 7 days in a Vacation Club villa ( with a kitchen and access to groceries) we decided to pick The “Original” Disney Dining Plan. I added the word ” original” because this is the basic plan that most people go with. This plan includes 2 Snack Credits, 1 Quick Service Credit, and 1 Table Service credit, per-person per-day of your stay. This made the most sense to us because we aren’t super heavy eaters so we can either use our snack credits for breakfast or make them in our kitchen. Using this plan we decided that it would be most economical to use the Quick Service credits for lunch and then use our Table Service Credits for dinner.

This is where that note of checking credit uses comes in handy. For example, our favorite restaurant Cape May Cafe at the Yacht Club and Beach Resort used to cost 2 Table service credits per person while it was the signature restaurant in that area. This means that we used to plan to eat out one night ( meaning out of pocket) in order to go to that restaurant. When you are planning your stay make sure you add up all of the credits for the places you are using and see if it all adds up. Also, make sure to scour the web to see if there are any places that are more bang for your credits. For instance, Be Our Guest, the Beauty and the Beast themed restaurant in the Magic Kingdom is a Table Service Credit for dinner but, it is a Quick Service Credit for breakfast and lunch if you make a reservation ahead of time, as it fills up quickly.

 

Overall, my main point is to make sure you plan ahead. If you don’t plan ahead when it comes to restaurants, oftentimes you won’t be able to eat where you want to and get some of those great meal experiences. I reccomend searching through youtube and finding some videos on resturaunt reviews so you can get an idea of places that you cannot miss while on your stay.

Well that’s all I have time for! Make sure to watch my youtube video on this topic coming out on friday as well!

Have fun and happy planning,

Lia

Countdown To Disney: Week 26

Hello interwebs! Welcome back to The Neighborhood Redhead! Today, I will be talking about my favorite places for getting Disney clothes to prepare for Disneybounds!

As I talked about in my last post, Disneybounding is the fashion art of finding regular everyday clothes to embody a Disney character, food, park or attraction. For my upcoming Disney World trip, I am planning for all of my outfits to be Disneybounds! That means I am creating a total of 13 Disneybounds! I am really excited and this will definitely be a challenge to my Disneybounding skills. Since I have started gathering clothes for these bounds already, I wanted to make a post talking about my favorite places to get those special pieces to make your Disneybound sing!

1. Target

Target is my favorite store in general, so of course, it was apart of this list. I just went to Target yesterday and while I was waiting for the Pharmacy I looked around and found lots of cute things for my upcoming Disneybounds. The thing I love about Target is that they have a perfect mix of basic and more eclectic pieces that will help make a good Disneybound in a snap! For example, I found these grey jeans that have this interesting paneling on the thighs for my Kylo Ren Disneybound. The other thing that is great about Target is the accessories. I can always find the perfect necklaces or rings that go well with any bound I am putting together.

2. Forever 21

For me, forever 21 is the perfect place for finding those weird pieces that you can’t find anywhere else. This place is for those statement pieces that add to the overall aesthetic of your bound. I also love forever 21 not only for their cheap prices but their HUGE accessory section. I love browsing through all of their hats, socks, and jewelry in order to add those small details to any outfit I am creating. For my upcoming Disneybound of the Epcot Ball, I found this silver holographic skirt that will give the outfit that perfect futuristic feel.

3. Hobby Lobby

Hobby Lobby is the mecca for all of us DIY-ers. I love making my own (usually floral) Disney ears. For this particular trip, I am making 13 sets of Minnie ears in order to make my bounds easier to recognize. To me, making parts of the outfit is the best part, allowing you to really customize the outfit and show off some of your own talents and skills. I also love this part because it allows you to stand out from all of the other Disneybounders’ in a way that is uniquely you! For example, I am doing a secret Disneybound that involves some Led light strips! ( More hints as to that one is in future posts.)

 

And that’s it! I think Disneybounding gets easier the more you see creative and interesting uses for not only new clothes but clothes you already have. As I have mentioned before, I think that Disneybounding can really change and Hype up an experience as well as keep you busy and entertained for the long wait until the day of the trip!

I will be posting a video showing my Disneybound Haul as well as some other tips regarding Disneybounds and I’ll share my 13 Disneybounds that I will be wearing on my upcoming Disney trip!

And as always, Stay magical!

Love and best wishes,

Lia

 

 

Long Distance Relationships: Living Without Your Personal Therapist

Hello, interwebs! Today I am going to be talking about my experience thus far with my long distance relationship and the struggles we’ve both had along the way. Particularly, I wanted to touch upon the idea of mental illness and how you are deeply affected by the lack of your significant other.

They never said that this was going to be easy. I knew that the moment I left home we would be in an uphill battle that most people had deemed we would lose. We both were very fervent about staying together and we knew that if we worked hard that we would make it out okay. That being said, we underestimated just how difficult it would be not seeing each other every day. In High School, we were around each other constantly with allowed us to share our struggles in school with the other person as well as our mental struggles.  He was always there to stand there and hug me and tell me that everything was going to be okay.

As I’ve started the new school year in college, I was optimistic that my issues with my Anxiety wouldn’t return. I was in a place I loved, surrounded by new friends that truly care about me as well as teachers that were looking out for my well-being and the state of my mental health. At first, I was great. I was going through school like a piece of cake, everything was soaking in; until recently. School started getting tougher and I could feel my anxiety making it more difficult to learn things. Like any dedicated student, I sought out tutors and increased and diversified my studying habits. Even though I did all of these things, I wasn’t getting the results I had hoped for, which of course, allowed my Anxiety to come back in.

Besides school, I’ve always been someone who has been very conscious of my diet. Not in a way that I limit what I eat ( besides the normal trying not to drink soda and what not) I am just conscious of what I eat and try to eat the healthiest I can while still enjoying the food. Now that I am in college, I am very aware of the “freshman 15” which basically stands for Freshman gaining 15 pounds by the end of the first semester because they don’t know how to eat properly. While I was at home if I wanted something I could make it. I cooked all the time, making salads, rice bowls, fish, chicken; anything I wanted to make my body and me feel better. In college, you no longer have that luxury. I have a kitchen downstairs, but that being said, Gordon Ramsey would pass out looking at it ( not exactly built for actually making good food). Therein lies the dilemma, trying to scrounge for healthy foods inside the dining hall, or eating salads for every meal ( not fun). My point being, the lack of healthy foods leads to an anxiousness about the look of my body which in turn makes me want to go to the gym more as well as allowing that not so body positive side of my anxiety to come back.

While I was at home if I wanted something I could make it. I cooked all the time, making salads, rice bowls, fish, chicken; anything I wanted to make my body and me feel better. In college, you no longer have that luxury. I have a kitchen downstairs, but that being said, Gordon Ramsey would pass out looking at it ( not exactly built for actually making good food). Therein lies the dilemma, trying to scrounge for healthy foods inside the dining hall, or eating salads for every meal ( not fun). My point being, the lack of healthy foods leads to an anxiousness about the look of my body which in turn makes me want to go to the gym more as well as allowing that not so body positive side of my anxiety to come back.

After living through this for about a week and a half now, I’ve made some conclusions. One, even without my boyfriend to help me be less anxious and body positive I have some amazing friends that have reached out and cheered me up to make sure that I’m doing okay ( which is really refreshing). Two, I am not perfect nor am I meant to be. I think as a person with an Anxiety disorder, we want ourselves to be perfect in order to make up for the fact that we have a mental illness. However, that’s the point right there – we don’t have to make up for the fact that we have a mental illness- It’s something that is apart of us and we have to accept it and learn to love it like the rest of ourselves. We also have to remind ourselves that we are human and we are not meant to be perfect, it’s just not how we were made. Lastly, the fact that I am communicating with my boyfriend about these struggles and he is too only makes the idea that we really do need each other to survive more prevalent. I know most people would say that is a bad thing but, I’d have to disagree.

I don’t mean to say that I am completely dependent on my boyfriend for emotional support. That being said, it is more of an interdependence. I need him to help with my anxiety and he needs me for his own set of issues and struggles. It allows us to communicate more as a couple and also allows us to remember to open up about our struggles so that your partner can share and help in times of need. As my advice for this post, if you have a significant other or not, don’t be afraid to ask for help. Your friends, family and trusted others are there to help you get through rough times and surmount them with power and confidence, so that you can be the person you want to be. Never be afraid to fail, never be afraid to struggle.

As always with love,

Lia

College Life: Getting used to being yourself

Hello interwebs! I haven’t done a post where I’m just casually talking about things for a while so I thought I’d bring that back today. I wanted to talk about something that has been on my mind lately as I am settling into the routine of college, becoming comfortable with being yourself.

 

For some people, this might have always been easy. For others, it takes us a while to fully be comfortable with showing people who we really are. Whether it is because of insecurities or lack of trust it all comes back to not wanting to share your actual self with the world. I always thought of this as putting on different masks. I’ve grown up being a people pleaser, as most people ( I think) who have had issues with this. We want to please everyone around us so depending on our situations we act and dress in different ways in order to please those people. On top of that, the people who have mental illnesses also create another mask in order to hide symptoms or to seem normal.

All through high school, I wore masks, and I became very good at hiding them. I had a mask for my friends, a mask for my family ( who didn’t yet know of my anxiety issues), a mask for people who didn’t know me, a mask for my teachers and fellow classmates. Every day I would flip through these different personas that I had created in order to somewhat please everyone around me. Toward the end of my senior year, and after I was dating Ian for quite some time, I had become tired of pleasing everyone. I had become tired of faking who I actually was so that my extremely fake friends would kinda tolerate my existence. So I stopped. I stopped pretending to be someone I wasn’t. I started calling people out for not treating me right ( as a friend) and demanded that I had people around me who gave me the same time of day as I did them.

That summer, I felt like I gained a sort of independence. Not so much a physical one, that being a free to be the person I wanted to be, but a mental independence; where I gained the courage and audacity to live life as my genuine self, regardless of who liked me or not.  That is when I left for college. Of course, leaving for college was a nerve wracking experience ( as I have previously mentioned) and that dwindled my new found confidence. However, as I have also mentioned, my campus is a place where people from many different backgrounds reside, leaving a hodgepodge of different interests and fashion styles. Getting to the whole point of why I am writing this, college is a time where you are supposed to be yourself or for that matter, try to figure out who that person is supposed to be. In finding that person, you gain a comfort of being in your own skin which for someone who hasn’t ever had that feeling, it’s utterly exhilarating.

For those people out there who are still struggling with this ( trust me I still am battling with my own self-image every day), I offer some advice. The best thing I can tell you is to fundamentally look at who you are, what you believe in, what you want to become, and who you want to be like. This allows you to figure out who you are as a person as well as looking into some of the things that you want to emulate in your daily life. The next thing I suggest is to stop caring. I mean this in the most genuine and nice way. If you stop caring what other people think about you ( which in college they really don’t care) you start living not for other people, but for yourself. You build a reputation off of the person that you’d want to be friends with and when you are truly yourself like that, the right kinds of people will flock to you.

Of course, there will be bad days, I still question my boyfriend all the time about what he thinks of me. I think it’s almost normal to question the relationships around us. Not because we will know they secretly hate us, rather, because we wish that they will tell us how much they need us. Everyone deserves to be needed, and if you aren’t needed right now, someone will come along who needs you like they need oxygen to breathe. And that will change everything.

Best of luck to everyone out there. Stay kind, stay truthful, stay humble, stay you.

Love and best wishes,

Lia

” You have been worth every letter typed on my keyboard, every breath I take for words. You are the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing I think of before I fall asleep. You are worth more to me than you will ever understand”

 

 

 

 

 

Long Distance Relationships: First year of college away from your significant other

Hello, interwebs! Today I am going to be talking about my thoughts on long distance relationships as well as some of the things that we are planning in order to help make the time away not feel so miserable.

 

Long Distance relationships, especially in college seem like this impossible feat. Everyone you know loves to tell you how much it isn’t going to work. However, in reality, like almost all things; if you give it love, attention, and dedication it will work. Of course, this will not work out for every couple as every couple is different but these are just my thoughts and actions regarding my own relationship that may or may not be helpful to you. First things first a little bit about my relationship. I started dating my boyfriend Ian at the beginning of my senior year after both of us crushing on each other for most of the previous school year. The week before school started we started talking, went on one date to the movies and he asked me out two weeks later. We are just about to hit our one year anniversary on August fourteenth and have had a basically bump-free relationship until now. I think the whole thing that I love about us is that we have such a high level of respect for each other and an understanding of each other’s needs ( such as him helping me with my anxiety symptoms and me just giving him love and help with English haha) that have helped us get through without any real hardcore fights.

Long distance relationships take a certain amount of dedication in order to work. I think you really have to take a step back and determine how much you are willing to work in order to keep the relationship healthy. As someone who recently got a promise ring I would consider us rather serious, though of course, you don’t have to be quite that serious. Overall, I think the main thing is that you are willing to take time out of your schedule for the other person in order to continue somewhat of a normal routine.

As for things that we are going to do to help make that schedule, I have a few things. First and foremost, taking time ( scheduling time) to call or skype them every day I think is key. I don’t say texting because you can message them anytime and it certainly isn’t as personal. If you set out an hour every day to call them or video call then this way you can hear their voice and have an in depth conversation like you would if you were actually with them. I also think this helps with the ” angry text syndrome” that happens with long distance couples. If you don’t know what this is, basically from what I understand when you are away from someone for so long you forget their tone when messaging and more things can be misconstrued as angry or mean. If you call them every day to catch up you can somewhat avoid this issue.

Another thing that we are doing is sending letters. This may seem weird for lots of people but I love stationery and writing so to show my work and effort I pledged to write weekly letters and send pictures along with them. Even though it’s from the girl to the guy, don’t underestimate the power of doing something that people know take time. He may be a manly macho man, but don’t think for a second that he doesn’t appreciate you taking an hour to do something as manual as writing letters. It doesn’t have to be this, of course, it could be sending packages once a month, making those ” open when cards” before you leave, or whatever else you can think of. Doing something on a regular basis that makes you stop and think about the other person will definitely help keep things interesting as well as keep you thinking about them in a positive way. As they say ” distance makes the heart grow fonder”

The last thing of advice is to always know when you are going to see them again.When you leave them always say something along the lines of ” see you on ( this date)”. I actually got this tip from Game Theory on Youtube during a live stream. They mentioned how they went through long distance during college and always did this whenever they saw each other. As for my own personal thoughts about this, I think besides being a really cute way of ” saying goodbye without saying goodbye” it helps remind the person that you are going to see them again and it actually isn’t an eternity away. It also makes it something to look forward to in the future.

 

I know leaving for college is already scary, especially when you are leaving someone who has been the backbone of your life for quite some time. However, this will allow you both to grow up and become independent people as well as hopefully, strengthening your relationship even if you aren’t with each other all the time. I wish you all the best with your relationship endeavors. Sorry for the long post but I had a lot of information to get out haha.

Best wishes,

Lia

 

May: A Month In Review

Hello, Interwebs! Today I will be continuing with my usual review of the months as they pass by.

Today, I’d like to focus on this idea of ” becoming oneself”. This meaning, to become the person you are meant to be. I’d like to think that this last month I have done more self-growth and self-exploration than I have in a long time. As I am going to college soon, I looked back on my high school experience and looked at all of the things I learned, all of the things I want to continue doing, and all of the things I want to leave behind.

For many people, this is what you’re experiencing right now. This sort of ” beginning of life existential crisis”. Therefore, I want to offer you some of the things that I have learned. The first of those lessons being ” all in due time”. I grew up sincerely thinking that I would never go to college. ( and I spoke about this in depth in another article so go and read that one). ” All in due time” means that you will come upon what you are meant to do or where you are meant to go if you are meant to go or do those things. Leave things up for the future and enjoy today ( of course that doesn’t mean you should do any planning. always plan)  The second thing that I’ve learned is that, above all else, be true to yourself. Many people today think that they need to be this person that they have envisioned as being a better version of themselves, I was one of those people. I used to think that I needed to act a certain way and refrain from being my true self for people to like me.

Now I know people always say ” be yourself and everything will be okay”, that isn’t what I’m telling you. Being yourself won’t be easy, isn’t the path to popularity and won’t get you Instagram followers; but it’s the truth. When you are your true and authentic self the people in your life that you don’t need are weeded out and you find yourself surrounded by people who genuinely like you for you who are, not who you pretend to be.

In the end, May is all about endings become beginnings. We are in this cycle of life whereas one door closes another opens. At the close of this article, I will leave you with this quote

” Without Darkness, there is no Light. For Life is the beautiful lie and Death is the ugly truth”

 

April: A Month in Review

Hello, Interwebs! Today I will be doing my usual review and look back at this month of April.

As many of you know, college is slowly approaching. One month left of school and then I will officially be a college student, which is pretty nerve-wracking if you ask me. This time is sort of melancholy, in the way that I am really excited about college, but I am also really sad about having to leave my family and my boyfriend; both of which I won’t be seeing for a long time as soon as I leave.

Besides all of the college stuff, April is time for fun memories. Prom ( being on the day I’m writing this) which will be a night of fun and dancing which I will hopefully remember as being one of the best nights of high school. Soon after, I have all of my May events including; May the fourth be with you, Senior Trip to Knott’s Berry Farm, and the renaissance faire. All of which should be fun and exciting creating lots of memories for me to look back on for the rest of my life.

April is also a time of new beginnings. With spring coming in, there is this new sense of energy and importance. I always see myself becoming more productive and more motivated during this time of the year, so hopefully, some of that energy can inspire some of you to do things that you wish you had been doing.

Spring is also a time for self-care. Recently, my friend vowed that she would help me get in shape, as well as help me to feel more comfortable in my own skin. If you are constant readers of mine, first, that’s super cool so thanks, second, you would know that I am taking this month to really focus on my mental illness and to really find ways to help and heal myself both mentally and physically.

Overall, my advice for this month is to take care. It’s always important to take care of yourself and to really be honest with yourself about your own health. Take some time to sit and relax as well as be productive and do the things you’ve been wanting to accomplish.

Stay safe, Stay healthy,

Lia

High School and Anxiety: What I’ve Learned To Not Just Deal With It

Hello interwebs! Today I will be talking about a topic that is near and dear to my heart and I think it’s something that many other people will relate to as well.

Anxiety and other mood disorders affect five out of ten people in the United States. That’s a lot of people who might be struggling with the same issues, with little to nothing spoken about it and what it’s actually like. Today, I will be talking a little bit about my own journey with mental illness and some things I have found that have helped me continue to grow throughout high school.

Anxiety is a difficult beast to deal with. On certain days it feels like the world could end at any moment and other days it feels what I can only describe as depression. It is different for everyone and some people, like myself, have become very good at hiding symptoms because of the stigma of being seen as someone with a mental illness. In the last year, I have become very ” in touch” with my anxiety and have decided that in order to free others like me of their fear of rejection, I should open up and be proud to ” show my battle scars” as it were. Anxiety also has its own stigma, due to the fact that most I’ve talked to consider a normal part of life. I think the hard thing for people ( who aren’t closely involved in their own mental Illness or know the struggles of others) to understand is that we aren’t talking about normal, everyday, stress. This is something that is debilitating for most and is something that can often take the normal out of their lives.

On a more happy note I would like to share a few, somewhat philosophical ways of looking and treating anxiety that was helpful to me, and hopefully will be helpful to some of you out there. For starters, knowing as much as you can about Anxiety and any other related mood disorders is extremely helpful. I think better understanding what is happening to you on a neural level is pretty validating. It reminds you that what you are struggling with is real and that there are thousands of people that struggle with the same things, and to me, that was extremely comforting. Second, I found that having at least one person you can trust is crucial. Unfortunately, too often people with mental illnesses are surrounded by people who don’t and refuse to try to understand what they are going through. I had this struggle and so I sought out to find at least one person who wanted to understand what I am going through and that person, fortunately, was my boyfriend. Having that support has been crucial for me as I am just starting to figure out the ins and outs of what it means to me and what I can do to combat the symptoms.

Finally, as cheesy as this may seem I’ve found meditation to be extremely helpful. Trust me, it isn’t some ” let’s sit by the fire and sing Kumbaya. It’s basically me sitting on my bed with my eyes closed listening to medieval fantasy radio on Pandora. Focusing on breathing and then thinking about the things that make me anxious and thinking about their rational/irrational qualities. Generally speaking, I will always be an advocate for introspection, especially when it is a battle of you vs your mind.

Personally, my own battle with anxiety has been a long and winding road. I’ve been struggling with it for as long as I can remember but never understood what I was feeling. Middle school, in particular, was rough for me because ( for those that know generalized anxiety) you are constantly anxious about everything and filled with self-doubt and self-depreciating thoughts. Mix that in with middle school and you can’t help but have a bad time. In more recent history, like I mentioned earlier, I have learned a lot about what it means to have generalized anxiety and how I can find ways to combat symptoms without simply denying that they exist. I share this with whoever is reading, because I want people to become more aware about mental illness, and that just because you have a mental illness doesn’t mean you are any less capable for sucess, happiness, and a fullness of life that normal people seem to think they have the only key to. Though trust me when I say, It’s more fun to be weird.

Sorry for the super long post, but I really wanted to get a message like this on the blog. I think it is extremely important to continue talking about mental illness and to help people understand that not all mental illness is depression or schizophrenia. I hope that some of you can be helped by this and always feel free to email me if you need someone in your life to support you.

Like someone, I loved told me once long ago, ” If no one else in this world needs you I do”.

 

 

 

For inspiration I shall leave you with this rather wonderful message from my boyfriend; ” I’m not going to pretend I can change or repair things that have happened to you in your past with mere words. But I can present you with some of my seventeen-year-old wisdom. Things that happened to us in our past, like the things you just shared with me, while they may be unfortunate or demeaning or painful to remember, they are, as you said, a part of who we are. Considering all that you said has happened to you, you could have turned out to be a depressed, sad, shut in. But here you are, a sweet fun understanding, pretty and intelligent young woman who managed to make her way into my life of all things. So I think that is worth quite a lot.